Single Black Moms get a new spokeswoman

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(SingleBlackMom.wordpress.com) – When it comes to our children, Single Black Moms don’t take no mess so when the world saw Wanda Durant grab her son by the chin and pull him to her, they might not have been ready for what would come next but single Black moms everywhere understood.

Like a members of a tribe, we viewed that moment with a knowing pride, sense of redemption and renewed purpose. Every day we sing the blues – and relish in the joys – of being single Black mothers. We defy the stereotypes. We re-brand ourselves. We shutdown haters and build up our children.

Until Wanda Durant, we did that usually on a daily basis, often by ourselves on the most local of levels. But with the 2017 NBA Championship won by Mama Durant’s son, Kevin, single Black moms gained an international spokeswoman, a marketing ambassador and a sister in the struggle.

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KITCHEN IDEAS: Carmel pretzel poppers are a real treat

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(SingleBlackMom.wordpress.com) – Want to wow your family with the most delicious dessert treat but some of your family has food allergies? This treat is gluten-free and can be modified to be nut free as well.

While the recipe as shown requires coconut sprinkles, it can be substituted for other topics or done without any topping just chocolate. If you’re lucky enough to be able to feed everyone nuts, try adding almond shavings or almost dust (ground finely).

You can also skip the carmel and use peanut butter (as well as the melting process). Continue reading

HOLIDAY HELP for SINGLE MOMS

(www.SingleBlackMom.wordpress.com) – This holiday season, don’t be caught up in how much things cost. Here’s a chance to teach your children how to appreciate money, how to develop their own style and how to turn an ordinary thing into an exciting thing! Thrift store shopping. In this post, we’ll also show you how to get toys, coats and housing help for your children and your family if you’re in a financial bind.

How to Buy Awesome Clothing from the Thrift Store

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Sex and the Single Mom: How to get back into the dating game

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How to get back into the game.

1. Abolish Negative Dating Mindsets

Before you set out into the glorious world of dating and men, I help you face and work through the fears and negative mental scripts that you may not even know you have—but keep single moms stuck and single. With a few easy exercises, you can figure out where you are now, and unstuck yourself for good.

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FREEBIES: National Fried Chicken Day and beyond

Hey Moms! It’s FINALLY National Fried Chicken Day and you’re going to love it because we’ve got the full list of places to get your grub on for free or at a discount!

Boston Market: Get an Oven Crisp Chicken Meal for just $7.99

Brown’s Chicken & Pasta: While the offer isn’t specific to National Fried Chicken Day, a meal of 8 Boneless Wings, Regular Fries and a Biscuit is only $4.99

Carl’s Jr/Hardee’s: Get a spicy Chicken Sandwich with small fries and a drink for $4.00 Continue reading

Social Workers SUCK

I met a social worker mom who – at first seemed very nice, caring and helpful. But, that didn’t last. Despite knowing that there was abuse happen, I watched her ignore it, find ways not to get involved and eventually just dump the person instead of do her job as a mandated reporter.

Ironically, I had very little positive things to say about social workers prior to meeting her. She had actually restored my faith in social workers only to discuss she is as bad as the others.

When social workers no longer care about the work, they should do us all a favor and just leave the profession for others who actually care.